Overnight success

Hey everyone,

I am proud to announce that in a matter of 24 hours, we reached 449 followers! WOW! I am so grateful that each and every one of you has supported me in my vision.

So close to 1000 followers and the next time I update on this blog, it will be for that milestone.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you and I  look forward to even more success with The Modern Day Fairy Godmother.




“Good things come to those who wait”

Anyone who knows me knows that I do not possess the virtue of patience. If you are two minutes late, you will get a phone call from me. Not ready to go when I am? I will be pacing back and forth in the hallway and giving you time updates every five minutes. Yes, I value punctuality despite the fact that I am not the most punctual person.

I am especially impatient when it comes to something I really desire. A new relationship, promotion at work or success on my blog? Yeah I want them and I wanted them immediately. However, waiting two years to finally get the promotion at work and getting the success for my blog a little over a year later was worth it. It made me work that much harder and appreciate these successes much more than I would had I received them immediately upon desire.

That’s when I realized. “Good things come to those who wait”, a once despised phrase, is now something I am proud to live by and I apply to my love life. I would rather invest in something, build that foundation and grow into a relationship than to have it immediately only for it to be short-lived. Why do you think that couples brag about waiting until their wedding day to make love or even kiss? It is that slow build up to that explosion of love that makes the wait worthwhile. It is about knowing one another, growing, maturing and investing in one another that makes love true. It is about wanting to be with a PERSON rather than wanting a STATUS.

Many may say that because Superman and I have been seeing one another for over three months that we should be in a relationship by now. We are definitely progressing but when we are both ready, that next step will become inevitable. Our relationship will be the best it can be because of the extra time we are taking to invest in it.

After all, good things come to those who wait 🙂


The Modern Day Fairy Godmother

8 Things Guys Secretly Love

Not sure about the playing with his hair while driving but everything else is so true!

James Michael Sama

Whether a guy is just starting to date a woman or is in a committed relationship with her, there are small things that she may do without thinking twice that guys secretly love.

While there are many, here are eight to start.


Laying your head on his chest.

When laying on the couch watching TV or laying in bed after a long day, it’s one of the best feelings when a woman lays her head down on your chest and puts her arm over you.

As men, we enjoy feeling as though we are being protective, and this signifies that she feels safe in our arms.

When you text him first.

There is a lot of pressure on guys to always initiate conversation. Sometimes he may not know if he’s being too pushy or texting too much – he might overthink it and not text you at all, which could…

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Doors Will Open

Monday Morning Inspiration

“Follow your bliss.
If you do follow your bliss,
you put yourself on a kind of track
that has been there all the while waiting for you,
and the life you ought to be living
is the one you are living.
When you can see that,
you begin to meet people
who are in the field of your bliss,
and they open the doors to you.
I say, follow your bliss and don’t be afraid,
and doors will open
where you didn’t know they were going to be.
If you follow your bliss,
doors will open for you that wouldn’t have opened for anyone else.”  – Joseph Campbell

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We have reached 302 followers!

Hey everyone,

In a matter of only two days, we went from 209 followers to 302 followers!!!! THIS IS FANTASTIC! Thank you all for your support because without you, The Modern Day Fairy Godmother wouldn’t have this success.

In celebration of this milestone, I will be adding something new on twitter: #TearUpTearOutThursdays. You may have thought that I was catering only to couples and singles going on dates before but I want this website to cater to EVERYONE. I understand that many summer flings and even long-lasting relationships are ending and it’s difficult. Well, I’m giving you a forum to express that heartbreak.

What do you do?

TEAR UP. Cry about them. Express your frustration, anger, disappointment, hurt and sadness. Let it all out and then

TEAR OUT. I’m serious. Just go on and start tearing them out of your life. Throw their gifts to you in a garbage bag, burn photos, delete their number, just do what you have to do to turn that negativity into positivity.

This is going to be a start of a movement. I wish I had this during my breakups but now, I am giving to others what I wasn’t able to have for a little while: support.

I will be sharing my stories as well, despite the fact that I have long torn those people out of my life. At the end of your tweet, try to write something positive. I will post a tweet soon to give an example. I encourage my fellow followers to even reply to these people and give them that support and encouragement to move forward.

We can all make the world a better place.


The Modern Day Fairy Godmother